Is ok to invite yourself over to a girls house?

I have to talked to this girl for a year now on aim and have been trying to hangout with her about half that time. She has been very elusive we live only 5 miles apart.
Is ok to invite yourself over to a girls house?
I don't believe that it is appropriate. Invite her to meet you somewhere.





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Reply:Well, seems like she does not have as much interest as you have. So, even if you go to her house, whats the point unless you are so sure you would be invited inside.
Reply:there's nothing wrong if you would like to visit her :)
Reply:dont go to her house. find a day to chill at the mall or something and see what happinds there. thats how i met my girlfriend.just wait till she wants to hang out someware cuz if you just go she will think your kinda phyco.
Reply:I tried that twice with one girl. She tactfully rejected both notions, and clueless me didn't get it the first time.





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...but hey, you're not Asian, so maybe you still have a chance. I've given up on my campaign. I should've known that I wasn't good enough.
Reply:you just don't invite yourself over. Wake up.
Reply:I would say no. Its ok to ask first...cause sometimes girls don't want to seem needy. But don't invite yourself unless you have actually been together for long enough where it would seem normal or if she ever said your welcome anytime. And even then you should still ask if it would be cool. The same applies to staying the night. I've ended a potentially good guy b/c he told me one night that if he could wear what he had on to work in the morning he would stay. My first thought was "WHO ASKED YOU"
Reply:No, it is freaky. You need to be invited.
Reply:you better check first if she's really into you as much as you are into her. no use shaming youself by assuming that she wants to hang out with you. i believe it'll be best to just ask her straight if she likes you or not
Reply:yea it is kind of rude/untasteful to invite yourself over to a girls house if you havent before, its not that big of a deal tho, i woould just be sly about it, and invite yourself over without really inviting yourself over (if you get that) comedy is the way to break a girls guard!!
Reply:Lol, if you've been talking for a year but still haven't hung out, she doesn't like you or is afraid of boys or something. Best to move on... and no, inviting yourself over = annoying/creepy. Unless you knew her really well, which you don't. Even if you think you do, you don't know someone until you've been together in real life. Peace %26amp; luck to you, try going out and meeting girls, bye