Why didnt she invite her friends to her wedding?

This situation is VERY sad. My ex-girlfriend and i were dating for 4 years, the last 1 1/2 became long distance bcs she moved back to her country and I wasn't prepared to be married. I wish I married her before, but I thought everything was fine. We continued going out, but apparently she starting hanging out with an old friend from college 6 months ago, and they got married 4 months later, she is now married 2 months. I was too upset to describe and still am majorly depressed. I had planned on marrying her, obviously I waited too long, and this kills me. However, I think this was completely a desperation marriage, I think she was obsessed with getting married, and thought I wouldnt ever do it.





Well, I just found out from her best friend that she did NOT invite any of her friends to this wedding (the wedding I am told was average size), and this girl has hundreds of friends. Ladies, why didnt she? Enbarassed, why?
Why didnt she invite her friends to her wedding?
Doesn't make sense to me at all. What would you do from a different country to stop her wedding or how much worse can you feel than you do now?
Reply:I don't know. I'm sure she has her reasons. You should move on. I know that you're sad now, but don't let this ruin the rest of your life. If you were supposed to marry her, you would have.
Reply:ummm, I think you need to move on, dude %26amp; worry about yourself. Let it go
Reply:You said it yourself... If she has 100s of friends, she can't possibly accomodate them all. Sounds like she chose to cut back on the guest list at the expense of her friends.





If she was "embarrassed" she probably wouldn't have had a wedding at all.
Reply:Maybe she couldn't afford it.. and just wanted a family thing.
Reply:Maybe she has lots of relatives she had to invite and couldn't invite all her friends. In order to keep from hurting anyone's feelings, she just didn't invite any of them. It happens a lot when people are trying to keep to a certain number of people at their wedding.
Reply:It costs money to have friends attend the wedding reception. Don't take it so personally.
Reply:Cost perhaps? Weddings are expensive, and she obviously didn't wait until you got yourself ready for commitment. Putting together a wedding in two months? Wow.