How would you feel if your sister told you that she wasn't going to invite your husband to her party?

I have read you last 4 questions and correct me if I'm wrong they all stem from your husband hurting you in some way.


I can see this is not a good night for you......my heart goes out to you. We all have those moments.


Your sister is acting out of love for you and trying to protect you from what she sees. She in her heart is trying to protect your best interest because out of love for you she thinks you are not thinking clearly and acting out of a blind love for hubbie. So how would I feel? I would know she means well and is trying to protect me from getting hurt again.


You on the other hand need to see this in her. If you feel your husband has felt the pain he caused you to feel, and is truly trying to make it up to you , then you have the confidence to stand by his side. Did you seek counseling also if the hurt was severe enough ?





If you choose to stand by him, then do so with her also. Tell her you know she loves you and has your best interest in mind but you know him better than her. If she choose to not let him attend an event still, then stand by your man and don't you go either.
How would you feel if your sister told you that she wasn't going to invite your husband to her party?
I would feel hurt.
Reply:First off I would feel she is trying to split the family apart. Trying to make you chose sides..Allowing a distance which could cause further distances with family members in regards to your husband as well. I am in that situation currently. I made the option either we both come or I do not attend. So where birthday/holidays are concerned presents are taken and given to them or left by the door if they are not home. We still speak by phone or email but that is it. Other family members can not rule your life only you can.


It takes time to come to terms with a situation like this but it's ok. If you love your husband and he loves you, you follow your heart. Sometimes family can be wrong in situations like this.
Reply:I would first exam why she would say this, and if the reason is true. I would go to the party because sisters are csuppose to be close no matter what. Your husband should understand if not then your sister not letting him go must be examed again.
Reply:I understand what you're asking but your sister has to know that this is the man you chose to spend the rest of your life with. He's your other half and if she wants you to be there then she should also let your husband come along. He's part of the family now, whether she likes it or not.
Reply:It would not bother me a single bit...WHY?


Because I would not invite her bas***d of a husband to my house either!


Let me tell you, he beats her, the kid and their dog ( He has already killed one of HER dogs!)


...so why would I want a sick SOB like him in my house? I would not.


However, in your situation...I would ask her why?


Explain to her that you do not understand why your hubby is not invited. Then, go from there.





I hope this helps..Blessings n hugs