Tuesday, May 25, 2010

Do I have to invite my mother to my wedding?

If you have a strained, uncomfortable relationship with your mother, and her presence will make make your special day uncomfortable, then I say hell no, you don't have to invite her.
Do I have to invite my mother to my wedding?
maybe but maybe not
Reply:Lol well it would be a nice gesture and you wouldn't have to hear her whining about not being invited later on. If she is known to cause problems maybe you should just try talking to her beforehand about how it's your special day and if she really loves you and wants you to be happy and have good memories she'll try her best not to make a scene.
Reply:r u serious, u must be kidding


OF COURS U SHOULD
Reply:yes, besides the fact that u need her to walk down the aisle, you need one of the people that helped you through life in your special day.


if you have problems with your mom and thats y ur asking if u have to invite her, then forget about it, its your day. plus u can talk about it right?. and if u do have problems with her, u cant just let it be. u need to figure out a way to solve it, cos it wont go away if u just let it be.





plus without her, u wouldnt be here right now, ur not gnna be married cos u dnt exist. ur lucky to have a mother, others doesnt.. soo take this chance to do something about it.





your mother is a one of a kind. when u lose her, u cant find a replacement, u may have a stepmother but she can never replace ur real mother. and every mother would like to see their daughter's wedding right? i know you'll know that someday when you have kids.





hope u do this thing right


xoxo
Reply:You don't HAVE to invite anyone, but I think it would be a bit odd if you didn't
Reply:No and it really depends on your background but it might be a nice gesture.
Reply:mom is the very especial 1 in ur wedding
Reply:No, you do not. If having your Mother at your ceremony is going to make you uncomfortable or create a serious problem then it is better that she not attend. But here's another suggestion: have her sit towards the back or rear of the church if you do not want her to sit in the first row. I once conducted a ceremony that involved a Groom who was "scared to death" that his estranged Father was going to walk in and disrupt the wedding or reception. The Groom was so preoccupied with watching out for his Father that he barely heard any of the words of his own wedding ceremony. And yes, the Father walked in and created a problem at the reception. The police were called and the guests were told to leave. Answered by: A Certified wedding specialist / a Professional bridal consultant / a Wedding ceremony officiant.
Reply:You invite whoever you want to invite to your wedding. You just have to be sure its really what you want %26amp; that in 10 years time when you look back on the day or see pics, will you regret her not being there?


We are getting married in a few months %26amp; a few family members on both sides wont be getting an invite for different reasons.


What it comes down to is who YOU %26amp; YOUR FIANCE want there. Your day, your rules :o) Just think long %26amp; hard about it before you fully decide.
Reply:If having her around makes you want to skin your eyeballs then no. If all she did was give birth to you and leave you after that I see no point in having her around. However, if your mother has been a loving woman then, yeah invite her. No one is gonna tell you what you should do. It would be alright to invite her, but then again if you feel that there is something wrong with having her around, don't have her there.
Reply:no

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