Going over to a friends tonight. He's gonna invite some girls and (Read for details)?

So, I'm going over to one of my friends houses tonight. He told me he's gonna invite some girls for both of us, and he's gonna help me lose my V. I'm only 14 (15 in a month) and I don't think I'm ready to screw some random chick.. I kinda want it to be special the first time I do this. How do I tell him this without him thinking I'm a puss?
Going over to a friends tonight. He's gonna invite some girls and (Read for details)?
Say you're sick or something if you really don't want to go. Prove it by coughing or gagging over the phone. If you hang out with him during the day act like you're getting sicker every second, and hopefully he'll understand. The only other thing I can think of is tell him straight out, and if he still doesn't understand what you have to say or something, reconsider your friendship with him, and just don't go. Talk to somebody else you trust about it if you need more help but say it as if one of your friends needs the help and it's really not you. Good luck.
Reply:Tell him straight up, kuzz in reality its not about him its about u, and dont let him pump you up about this whole V thang kuzz its more to it than just losing it. Not only are you losing it, but you got to think about this chick that you barely know is probably gonna talk crap about you being a few seconds to a min long, and how small you are and a bunch of yadda yadda yadda and you be tha laughing stock of the century! thats never cool! So if he's your Homie he'll respect you and leave it at that, besides it feels better when its somebody you love and trust!.. Trust me!
Reply:Tell him that you want the first time to be special and that if he wants to hook up with some random chick good for him. Or you can lie to hima and say you have something else to do.
Reply:you could cancel at the last minute or when they come say im not doing that!! idk you could just say to him hey um i dont think i wanna really do this tonight ive hada rought day and im jsut not in the mood...
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