Tuesday, May 25, 2010

How about if a friend (boy), not a boy friend invite a girl to his house for lunch ...?

How about if a friend (boy), not a boy friend, after going to church (he told the girl to come to his church, he invite a girl to have lunch in his home, and the girl eat together with him, not include his parents, but he introduce the girl to his parents. What the meaning of that boy ? whether he only just a friend with the girl or something else ? but the boy is really strange, sometime call the girl, but not so often, and not yet declare if he has a feeling or not with the girl.
How about if a friend (boy), not a boy friend invite a girl to his house for lunch ...?
1 )the boy is very sweet %26amp; nice





2 ) the boy is comfotable when she is around as a friend!





3)the boy loves her!





4)the boy loves her!





5)the bot loves her!
Reply:He just took you over for lunch no big deal and he was just being polite to introduce you to the parents. Just be friends for now and see what happens.
Reply:may b he loves u but u hav to wait till he does not show any feelings for u . don't b over excited and don't ask him he will tell u if he loves u .
Reply:this is very complex situation coz some times it means that he is in love with u....thats y he introduced u to his parensta also......but some times this may be normal also.....my parents know more then 50 friends of mine....





so wait for him to give some more signals.......
Reply:Its hard to tell. I have had lunch with several girls with just the two of us. Some of them had boyfriends. Our lunch date didn't mean anything romantic. Their boyfriends knew about it, but we are good friends. He may have feelings, he may not.
Reply:wait, and meet his parents, but not stay in his bedroom, coz his parents will think that you are a bad girl and your religion is mask that you are hiding behind, they will not trust you.


so better meet him where his parents are if they were good.


be with your friends and his friends at lunch, be respectable talk in a nice way in front of your friends, don't let him touch you, and you don't of course because you are religious, love stay in th eheart or write it down on papers and keep soemwhere away from anyone's reach.


good luck, wait for Mr. right, and distract yourslef by doing sport activities, arts or voluntary work or working, studying.
Reply:If he is religious and still a boy, he's probably confused about what he wants himself. Knowing how hormonal the teenage years can be, I wouldn't be surprised if he really wants to get close to this girl, but the faith he follows discourages such behavior. His body is telling him one thing, but his mind is telling him another.





His inner conflict is probably what causes the odd behavior. (however it is not unusual for a guy of any age to not call a female as often as she'd like, so that isn't that strange). It is also what makes him invite the girl over when there's an opportunity to get closer, and what makes him introduce her to his parents in a much more formal way.





I'd say he's not mature enough to know what he wants from a girl friend. If she feels safe in this situation, she may want to take him to those places he's never been before, but he still may back into the expectations of his parents and clergy. If it doesn't feel safe for her now, then she should talk to him and make sure he understands that she is his friend, but not his girlfriend.
Reply:he is being a good friend. and maybe he can become closer and things might get better.
Reply:Consider a friend till he says or does more.
Reply:I think that having lunch with such a friend would b okey. This would give u a chance 2 talk with him %26amp; know more about him n that way u know what he wanted 2 say.
Reply:oh girls


there are plenty of available boys


stop bothering


see one and another


and another
Reply:he sounds like a shy boy thats trying to show intrest in a girl whom he has feelings for. I say ride it out, see where it leads.

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