Is it rude to invite 10 people to your birthday party & have 5 of them sleepover?

I'm going to answer this completely honestly. It depends on the people


If the people are aren't inviting to stay the night are sensative to things like that, they'll be pretty upset.


But a lot of people only let a few people stay over for birthdays. So in our society, it isn't realyl rude.


Just make sure that it's the better friends that are staying, and the ones that aren't know that you have better friends than them.


I've never heard about anyone that gets in a huge fight over this kind of thing.
Is it rude to invite 10 people to your birthday party %26amp; have 5 of them sleepover?
it is and you might tell them to not tell anyone but somehow it will get out.... maybe do it the next night or smeothing liek that
Reply:it depends on whether they r ur good friends or not! Ask ALL of the GIRLS if they want to sleepover and tell them it wont make u feel bad if they dont wanna or cant. Then if they cant or just dont wanna it will be ok!
Reply:No, because people need to understand that you're parents or you don't need 10 people in your house. I mean the other people may feel left out, but tell them that you can't have everyone sleep over, and that you'll do something with the next weekend.
Reply:Yes it's rude. I think the other 5 may have hurt feelings when it's time to leave.
Reply:well, you dont have to tell those other 5 ppl tht ur haveing those kids sleepover.
Reply:yeah kinda


once my friend wanted to have a big party but only a few of us were going to sleep over so she had a day party with lots of people at the scating rink and so it looked like everyone was going home cuz we did cake with everyone but then some went to her house to sleep over and it was kept quiet a about that
Reply:No I don't think so. You only have so much space, you can't make everyone happy.
Reply:Yes,unless the other 5 are of the opposite sex. You would lose 5 friends I think!
Reply:I don't think it's nice to exclude people; however, parents sometimes don't feel safe with too many kids in the house unsupervised at night. There may be a justified reason for the decision.
Reply:...I think it would be kind of rude to them, but if you don't care, then you don't have to care. Well, unless you just invite the girls at your party to sleepover, that would be understandable. It'd be kind of disappointing to a person who wasn't invited if they really thought you were great friends. If you don't want to invite the others, they'll get over it eventually.
Reply:Really rude! If there guys then its reasonable but the 5 who don't sleepover would feel unwanted and would start questioning there friendship with you.
Reply:Yeah that would be rude unless it was five guys
Reply:I'm assuming that you have an equal amount of boys and girls at your party and the girls are staying the night. If that's the case, it's all good.
Reply:Very much so. Put yourself in there position; what if you were one of the ones who wasn't asked to stay, and you thought alot of the person who invited you to the party.
Reply:YES don't do that at all It will hurt your friends feeling and affect your friendship forever. Have all or no one stay over, unless they say they don't want to stay





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Reply:Yeah, unless you wanted an all-girls sleepover,and you invited five boys just to the regular party. I've never heard of a sleepover with both boys and girls, with an exception of the Math Club sleepover.
Reply:Uncomfortable..... Unless the five are boys and you're a girl.
Reply:it isnt rude if you explain to the other five the situation....maybe you can only have a certain amount of people to stay over...
Reply:not really, if theyre your freinds theyll understand. just dont be rude about it. and explain to them why very nicely. i used to invite up to 20 people all girls to my b-day parties and only had 1 or 2 sleep over
Reply:yes very
Reply:yes
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