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Let's say, you 2 are 17\18, how can I show her I wanna do it with her?
Help?
What's the best way to invite your girl to do it?
Don't rush it....just wait until she turns 18 then ask the question again.
Reply:Kiss her and push her to the bed.....that's the best way. She is young and she might slap you for doing that. Be aware!!!
Reply:I think you best thing you can do is talk to her about it. Talking about awkward things that sex, children, etc. are difficult to talk about at first, but pay off in the end.
You know your girlfriend better then I do, so bring up the conversation in a way that would make her feel comfortable.
EDIT: I'm not sure where you live, but in most places 17/18 year old intercourse is not rape if it is consensual
Reply:Watch Juno with her and see if you still want to show her. Then, read a few books about raising a family. Read articles about pregnancy with her. Then ask her, "Should we do it?" I hope you wait until you are responsible enough for whatever consequences your actions may lead to. Only then would you not show her, it will just happen. Wait...
Reply:you shouldnt. period.
Reply:if she is 17 I would wait till she turns 18.
Reply:don't! sex isn't an invite. like a party. it is something special and should just happen. if you make her feel uncomfortable she may become scared or resent you. you guys still have time. if you love her you will wait until she is ready.
if she is a virgin there may be reasons behind it. she may also not be ready. how long have you guys been together? maybe she is scared to get hurt.
talk about it without saying you want to. find out her beliefs, and how she feels about how long someone should wait for sex. you may be surprised and she could say not too long....
Reply:Talk to her about moving to the next step, ask if she's prepared for sex yet for a start, you jumping on her is going to give the wrong impression full stop...and you shouldn't even prod to the point where she has to tell you to stop. It makes a girl back off fast.
Talk about things you like or want to do together, get to know her properly, otherwise you could start having sex, do something she doesn't like and then it has to stop half way through.
Oh and obviously talk about protection and safe places to do it...not in a public alley or park, unless you wish to be found, arrested and have your parents critisize you for being irresponsible.
Reply:Point blank tell her you are interested in taking the relationship to that level. When/if she says no, respect her decision and don't punish her for it. If she says yes, be intelligent enough to practice safe sex.
Reply:dont
Reply:just invite her over and then do some heavy flirting start touching her and go from there..and if she say STOP. then STOP or els thats RAPE.
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